My parents, two sons and one daughter, lived in a two room shack one morning in 1923. I was added at about 2:30 PM that afternoon. Not long after, my parents moved their family to another city, Lawton, OK, where they rented on Park Avenue (No row of mansions), H Avenue, then I Avenue (Where a flood began my memories), thence to H Avenue (adventures started there).
My parents bought some land outside of city limits in 1928. A tornado damaged German style barn provided rough lumber for building another two room shack which grew to five rooms as I grew to maturity. That was my first home in my mind. Marriage and World War Two took me to several small houses before sharing a pup tent with some other soldier 8,000 miles away in the Pacific Ocean. I was in Tokyo Bay 2 September, 1945, when Japan signed unconditional surrender on the Battleship Missouri. We, 8th Regiment, 1st Cavalry Division, took up quarters in Azabu University for some end of war duties and to await ships to take us to some place called Home.(my Home Country).
Some found home but some found no home. I remained in Army Organized Reserve while spending time and working in Utah which was no Home. I returned to Oklahoma which seemed to claim me as my Home State. Henceforth I felt a homey feeling when I crossed Red River and rested in the Rest Stop at Marietta, OK. I also got to telling myself that I was reaching my Home Town of Lawton, OK, when Mt. Scott came in to view.
I decided the Army held more for me than the life I had been living so, with a precious new wife, I enlisted Regular Army with intent to be a driver, trucks or otherwise. The Army saw Typing on my high school transcript; I drove a typewriter instead of a truck; quickly gaining rank of Buck Sergeant.
a circular came asking for names of Administrative NCO for the Manhattan Engineers in New Mexico. A spotless military record and an AGCT Score (IQ) above 120 was the minimal requirement. I was chosen from a small number of qualified applicants. I was assigned to Headquarters, Headquarters Detachment, Sandia Base/Laboratories, Albuquerque,, New Mexico. We lived in a one room apartment, a converted milking shed, another one room apartment next door to a city zoo with bears and lions and elephants. None could be called Home.
I lived in Army Barracks when my wife went to Oklahoma City to await the birth of our first child. I was being pushed toward Officer Candidate by my Commanding General as I considered getting a discharge to better care for my wife and child. Love won out over Army Duty and I returned to my Home State and eventually to My Home Town of Lawton, OK, and a new house that had been built for our Home. A period of unrest denied fulfilment of that dream. I became a US Border Patrol Inspector for about a year, where I lived in a tiny trailer house (no home).
My return to Oklahoma started a series of rentals in Norman, Bethany, Oklahoma City with my in-laws. We lived for a time in an old mansion of three levels plus basement and about twenty rooms. I was never in all of those rooms.
I finally bought an acreage outside of Midwest City, OK, with a tiny concrete block cabin that was crowded with my wife and me and our son and his baby sister. I built a nice bungalow on that land to be our new home in 1961. A second daughter was born in 1963. A second son was added in 1966. About 1969, we took an eight year old foster daughter. Our place in the country became Home for five. We had garden, horses, good neighbors with children who knew no fences and often assembled in our yard or house. Neighbors often were invited to share the evening meal at another Home.
Our children didn't just attend school but were involved in deeper school activities such as choir, basketball, football, cheerleader, and flag corps. All received piano lessons and with fair to exceptional success. Rheumatic Fever and Breast Cancer invaded our paradise by attacking my precious wife over a period of several years. It never diminished our love which was the glue that held our household together and formed it to be our HOME.
My wife, our children's Mother, endured progressive cancer for years while never ceasing in her outreach to dozens of others needs. As our youngest neared high school graduation, Wanda Jean Wood succumbed to cancer and, on 2 July, 1981, moved up to await me in a heavenly HOME.
My independent life was nearly ended in 2005 but God had some different plan. I was blest with a new and different life which included many people of which many became dear friends. My children were always supportive. A tragedy ended my youngest son Michael David Wood's life in April 2015.
Congestive Heart Failure necessitated my hospitalization in January, 2019, and my youngest daughter Cheri Benfield and Kevin Benfield welcomed me to their Home. I broke my back on about 12 August and surgery with about six weeks hospitalization and a near miraculous recovery.
We celebrated my ninety seventh birthday as a strange new virus called Coronavirus swept from China to nations across the world. My daughter would be exposed to this highly contagious and often deadly disease as Case Management Registered Nurse and I was quickly whisked to the safer environment of Gary's and Carmalita's Home where I now reside. All three of my living children have assured that I lacked for nothing and received all needed medical care; Janis Wood has taken me to all medical appointments.
I was loved, cared for, and content in each household with joyful familial relations; all was freely given. My heart was where my precious wife and I saw our children grow and mature in our family with unquestioning and unlimited love. Our foster daughter grew with us from eight to eighteen years of age. Today, my love is spread to every place our children might be.
Born in one city, matured in another, dwelt in many, my life encompassed in a circle of 10,000 miles; where is my Home? My mind and my heart are in agreement. Home is that place where my heart's sweetest memories were engraved for all the years that I might live. Though no longer 'country', that spot is what fills my mind and defines the full meaning of HOME.